Tuesday, September 11, 2012

Remembering 9-11



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Today is 9/11, the 11th anniversary of the attacks on the World Trade Center and Pentagon. Like many of you, I am moved by the memorials, the moments of silence, and the stories recounted of those who made difficult choices to help others in time of danger. I have listened to the 911 calls of doomed people stuck in the WTC building about to collapse, watched the videos of people hurling themselves from hundreds of stories up in an effort to be in control of their own fate, one last time. It is difficult to see and hear these things without remembering the pain of those who died and their loved ones who remained behind, and of the first responders who tried to help but couldn't save everyone.

As we remember the pain of that day, I would like us to remember not what makes us stand apart from other countries and peoples, but what makes us the same. Instead of seeking vengeance or solace in the idea that the United States is greater than everyone else, why can't we see that 9/11 is something that unifies us and shows us our similarities with others around the world? Whether we realize it or not, 9/11 is something that happens daily in many other parts of the world. While the details differ, the suffering is the same. In Syria today, how many people - children included - will die as bombs rain indiscriminately from the sky? In Gaza, how many children bear the emotional scars of fear and war? In Congo, how many people must die before we notice? Do we, as a nation, need to inflict those scars of war on other people in order to prove we are not cowed by al Qaeda's violence?

What I would wish for us on 9/11 is that we remember our suffering, and we grow in awareness of the suffering of others. That is the first step to compassion. When our nation can be motivated by compassion instead of vengeance, we can truly become a shining light upon a hill.

“Have compassion for all beings, rich and poor alike; each has their suffering. Some suffer too much, others too little.”  -- The Buddha

Tuesday, August 21, 2012

Todd Akin May Be A Neanderthal, But He's Not the Only One

Todd Akin, aka the "legitimate rape" guy, has sincerely and whole-heartedly apologized for his remarks, saying that "rape is never legitimate." I'm glad we got that out of the way, because what he didn't say was just as important: he didn't back off of his claim that pregnancy is less likely when a woman is raped. Akin said he knows ""that people do become pregnant from rape," and that he didn't mean to imply that it didn't happen -- but didn't specifically address whether pregnancy was less frequent in cases of rape.

The Republican party is in damage-control mode, trying to portray Akin's words as an isolated incident. However, it is clear that this myth of women magically avoiding pregnancy when raped has been around the block a few times, despite the lack of scientific evidence. As the New York Times mentions (though I noted this was in a blog post, not a news article), a number of prominent Republicans have made similar claims going back to 1988:

The Buzzfeed blogger who writes as Southpaw traced the idea back another decade, finding a 1988 report from the Philadelphia Daily News on a Republican state legislator in Pennsylvania, Stephen Freind, who claimed that the chances of a woman getting pregnant from rape were, “one in millions and millions and millions.” Mr. Freind gave a version of the same explanation then that Mr. Akin relied on: the trauma of rape, he claimed, causes women to “secrete a certain secretion” that kills sperm. When the newspaper asked a professor of obstetrics and gynecology for a response, he said simply: “There’s no basis for that. That’s nonsense.”
 Where does this idea come from, in a medical and legal sense? Yes, you guessed it, it comes from medieval England.

“The legal position that pregnancy disproved a claim of rape appears to have been instituted in the U.K. sometime in the 13th century,” the medical historian Vanessa Heggie wrote in a blog post for The Guardian on Monday. She explained that one of Britain’s earliest legal texts, written in about 1290, included a clause based on this bit of folk wisdom: “If, however, the woman should have conceived at the time alleged in the appeal, it abates, for without a woman’s consent she could not conceive.”
 Apparently, the folk wisdom implies that a woman must "enjoy" the sex to get pregnant. If she got pregnant, therefore she must have enjoyed it! Ahh, the twisted logic - logic that potential lawmakers share. I hope the voters of Missouri reject this nonsense.

I'm Baaaack!

I'm back to blogging. I hope for real this time. The busy working mom thing sometimes interferes with fun stuff, like spreading my opinions far and wide. No one at home will listen to me anyway. I plan to write on Middle East stuff but when something really ridiculous comes up in another part of the world, of course I'll have something to say about it. For all 6 readers of this blog out there - feel free to comment!

Thursday, October 6, 2011

In high-tech tributes, Apple fans mourn Steve Jobs | ajc.com

In high-tech tributes, Apple fans mourn Steve Jobs | ajc.com
Mourner holds up an image of a candle on an ipad at a memorial for Steve Jobs

A World Without Steve Jobs


A world without Steve Jobs is a little like a world without Santa Claus. He would bring us our "toys" - the sleek gadgets that are a joy to use - unveiled in his charismatic way, in front of a rapt and appreciative crowd. We adults loved Steve Jobs in the same way our kids loved Santa. No one else knew what we wanted, even when we ourselves didn't, and managed to deliver it, year after year. Who will bring us our toys now? The world has lost a little magic now that Steve Jobs is gone.

Rest in peace, Santa Jobs. The little kid in all of us will miss you.

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Sunday, August 21, 2011

End of the Line for Qaddhafi???

It's been a long spring and summer while the images of Egyptians and Tunisians celebrating their newly-won freedoms faded in America's notoriously short public memory. But it looks like a new victory may be upon us: Libya! While much has yet to be sorted out, the end appears to be in sight for the months-long slug-fest. Citizens of Tripoli have cowered in fear for months, but now they have come out into the streets to celebrate what appears to be their first glimpse of freedom.

If true, much hard work lies ahead for the people of Libya. Constructing a democracy on the ashes of a brutally repressive regime is not easy. Further, studies suggest that violent revolutions complicate the transitions even more than nonviolent revolutions. Having made it this far, I have confidence in the ability of the Libyan people to get it done!


Monday, July 11, 2011

Press Conference of the Peas - on Storify


Obama's press conference on the debt ceiling - marked by great metaphors about Band-Aids and eating peas. Will it do the trick?
As we wait to find out, read the Twitter comments of those watching the conference live - on Storify.

Click here to go to the Storify narrative.